A Fun 3-Day Napa Valley Itinerary You’ll Love (Perfect for First-Timers)

Last updated on May 9th, 2025 at 03:29 pm

So, you finally booked that trip to sunny California and decided to carve out a little time for wine country? Yayyyy we love that for you. Well, welcome to Napa Valley aka my literal happy place and also basically my backyard. Napa valley is seriously such a stunning place with world-class wine, unforgettable food, and rolling vineyards that go for miles at a time. If it’s your first time here, don’t worry! I’ve got you covered. Keep reading for the ultimate 3 day Napa Valley itinerary, crafted by this girlie who happily makes the monthly drive up from San Francisco and has somehow acquired multiple wine memberships across the valley!

All accompanied by a sample 3 day Napa Valley itinerary I’ve personally vetted, tested, and approved. Also sometimes tested by our beloved Bagel the beagle when she’s allowed to join. So let’s get into it 👇

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3-Day Napa Valley Itinerary at a Glance

Short on time? Here are my top picks for the best boutique hotels for your 3 day Napa Valley itinerary:

• GoodSpring Motel (Downtown Napa) – A recently renovated retro-style motel with minimal but cozy vibes, perfect for travelers who want a cute and affordable base within walking distance to downtown Napa’s food and wine scene.
• Archer Hotel Napa (Downtown Napa) – A stylish, upscale hotel right in the heart of downtown, featuring chic rooms, a rooftop bar, and walkability to Napa’s best restaurants and tasting rooms.
• The Setting Inn Napa (Oak Knoll District) – A serene, design-forward boutique hotel set among the vineyards, offering modern farmhouse charm and peaceful views, perfect for travelers seeking a relaxed wine country escape just minutes from downtown Napa. Click here for my full review of The Setting Inn!
• Maison Fleurie (Yountville) – A charming French country-style inn with cozy rooms and a romantic garden setting, perfect for travelers craving a quiet, boutique experience in walkable Yountville.
• Wydown Hotel (St. Helena) – A stylish boutique hotel with modern interiors and a central location on St. Helena’s Main Street, ideal for those who want walkability and a design-savvy vibe.

Ps. See all the details of my stay at The Setting Inn in my full review!

How to Get to Napa Valley for Your 3-Day Itinerary

Before I jump into the logistics of getting to Napa Valley, it’s important to give some context on the valley itself. You might think “Napa” is a one destination town but that’s actually not true. I grew up in the Bay Area and honestly didn’t even know this until I recently started coming up more and more 🥴

When people say “Napa Valley,” they’re typically not just talking about the town of Napa (ie. Downtown Napa). The valley itself stretches about 30 miles from Downtown Napa in the south to Calistoga in the north, and it’s made up of a bunch of charming towns in between — like Yountville, Oakville, Rutherford, and St. Helena. Each town has its own vibe, which is why for 3 days in Napa Valley, I highly recommend renting a car since it gives you the freedom to explore the whole valley at your own pace and really make the most of your trip.

Flying and Driving for Your 3 Day Napa Valley Itinerary

Now that you understand the size of Napa Valley, let’s get into the best ways of getting up to California wine country. The easiest move is flying into one of the Bay Area airports: SFO, OAK, or SJC all work great. From there, just rent a car and enjoy a scenic 1.5–2 hour drive into wine country. You could also spend a few days in San Francisco, and rent a car from the city which cuts down the drive to about an hour with no traffic.

Another underrated option? You could fly into Sacramento Airport (SMF). It’s a smaller airport, often less chaotic, and only about a ~1.5-hour drive to Napa (rental car required here too). This is a common option for folks coming from within California and/or people who like to fly Southwest since Sacramento is a small hub for them.

Using Roundtrip Uber for Your 3 Day Napa Valley Itinerary

Don’t feel like driving and money isn’t an issue? That’s wonderful, can you adopt me?? Lol. You can totally Uber roundtrip from the Bay Area! Just keep in mind you’ll likely be relying on Uber for all 3 days in Napa too. It’s doable (I’ve done it before and it worked out fine), but the costs can add up fast, especially if Ubers are surging on the weekends. Just something to factor in while you’re planning!

Joining an Organized Day Trip During Your 3 Day Napa Valley Itinerary

I know this is a 3 day Napa Valley itinerary but if for some reason, you’re short on time and just want a taste of Napa without spending the night, organized day trips from San Francisco are a solid option. Most include roundtrip transportation, winery stops, and just enough time to get tipsy before heading back to the city. Check out some of these Napa Valley day trip wine tours, all with great ratings:

• Full-Day Guided Wine Tour with Picnic Lunch
• Luxury Small-Group Wine Tour of Napa Valley
• Napa Valley Half-Day Wine Tour with Tastings

Best Time to Visit for your 3-Day Napa Valley Itinerary

I might be one of those freaks that loves Napa Valley every single month of the year. Seriously, you can ask all of my friends. They all know that if I’m not traveling, they can most likely find me in wine country with my fiance and dog. We love our dog but there’s only a handful of dog-friendly wineries in Napa Valley so we sometimes leave her to her grandpawrents. But seriously, I’m one of those people that thinks every season in Napa is unique. From cozy winter nights to full-blown harvest, keep reading for my take on the best time and best month(s) to visit Napa Valley!

Visiting Napa Valley in Spring/Summer

Visiting Napa Valley in spring and summer are pretty much peak wine country vibes. The vineyards start to come alive with lush green vines, and the weather is perfect for sipping wine outdoors, patio dining, or taking in the views from a hilltop tasting room. From March to May, expect mild temps around 65–75°F (18–24°C), making it ideal for winery-hopping without breaking a sweat. Come summer (June to August), the days get sunnier and warmer, with highs in the 85s°F (27–32°C). We also get the occasional heat wave which is great for pooltime, but not so great for the grapes.

Summer in Napa Valley is divine though. It’s perfect for outdoor tasting, poolside hangs, and those dreamy golden hour vineyard strolls. Summer is also prime time for concerts, food festivals, and special outdoor tasting events across the valley. (If you’re local, it’s one of the best reasons to get a membership because the summer events are so fun)

Visiting Napa Valley in Fall/Winter

Visiting Napa Valley in fall and winter has a totally different charm and it’s one of my favorite times to go. I don’t know if that means much though because I already told you that every day and month are my favorite times to visit Napa 😂

From September to November, you’ll catch harvest season in full swing, when the valley buzzes with energy and the vineyards light up with shades of red, orange, gold, and brown! Temps usually range from 60–75°F (15–24°C), so it’s still perfect for being outside without the summer crowds.

Winter (December to February) brings much cooler, quieter vibes. The best part? Low season = low prices. It’s definitely the most cost-effective time to visit Napa Valley that’s for sure. Winter in Napa usually equals cozy tastings by the fire, fewer tourists, and a more laid-back pace. With highs around 55–65°F (13–18°C), it’s definitely jacket weather, but still totally doable for indoor wine tastings and exploring. Plus, this is the season for scoring reservations at top spots without the wait.

Top Boutique Hotels to Book for Your 3 Day Napa Valley Itinerary

If this isn’t your first Discover Over There blog post, then you’ll know that finding a boutique hotel is one of my favorite parts of traveling. And the boutique hotels in Napa Valley? They’re a f*cking dream. Prepare yourself though, they don’t come cheap. Especially during peak season. It’s one of the most frustrating parts about Napa if I’m being honest. But from north to south of Napa Valley, all of the boutique hotels here are seriously top-notch.

Here are my favorite boutique hotel picks in Napa Valley, broken down by the three main areas of the City of Napa, Yountville/St. Helena, and Calistoga.

Ps. See all the details of my stay at The Setting Inn in my full review!

Best Boutique Hotels in Napa: Downtown Napa

• GoodSpring Motel (Downtown Napa) – A recently renovated retro-style motel with minimal but cozy vibes, perfect for travelers who want a cute and affordable base within walking distance to downtown Napa’s food and wine scene.
• RiverPointe Napa Valley Resort (Downtown Napa) – A laid-back resort with cottage-style accommodations and leafy grounds, ideal for families or groups looking for space, a kitchen, and easy access to Napa’s riverfront.
• River Terrace Inn (Downtown Napa) – A serene, riverside hotel with spacious rooms and a peaceful setting just outside the bustle of downtown — great for travelers wanting a mix of calm and convenience.
• Archer Hotel Napa (Downtown Napa) – A stylish, upscale hotel right in the heart of downtown, featuring chic rooms, a rooftop bar, and walkability to Napa’s best restaurants and tasting rooms.
• Grand Reserve at The Meritage (South Napa) – A luxe, resort-style property with spacious suites, a full-service spa, on-site tasting rooms, and vineyard views — perfect for travelers who want it all in one place without needing to venture far. Great for groups, weddings, or anyone leaning into full-on relaxation mode.

Ps. See all the details of my stay at The Setting Inn in my full review!

Best Boutique Hotels in Napa: Yountville/St. Helena

• Maison Fleurie (Yountville) – A charming French country-style inn with cozy rooms and a romantic garden setting, perfect for travelers craving a quiet, boutique experience in walkable Yountville.
• North Block Hotel (Yountville) – A design-forward, modern boutique stay with a buzzy on-site restaurant and spa — ideal for couples or friends looking to stay right in the middle of Yountville’s wine-and-dine scene.
• Harvest Inn (St. Helena) – A scenic and spacious resort nestled among vineyards, offering cozy fireplaces and vineyard views, perfect for a romantic wine country escape.
• Wydown Hotel (St. Helena) – A stylish boutique hotel with modern interiors and a central location on St. Helena’s Main Street, ideal for those who want walkability and a design-savvy vibe.
• Alila Napa Valley (St. Helena) – A luxurious adults-only retreat with sleek architecture, vineyard views, and elevated service — best for travelers looking to splurge on serenity and style.

Best Boutique Hotels in Napa: Calistoga

• The Bergson (Calistoga) – A cozy and affordable boutique inn with charming, vintage-style rooms and a peaceful location close to downtown Calistoga’s tasting rooms and hot springs.
• Calistoga Motor Lodge & Spa (Calistoga) – A retro-inspired motel turned hip wellness getaway, with funky decor, geothermal pools, and a full-service spa — perfect for laid-back wine lovers who love a side of self-care.
• Mount View Hotel & Spa (Calistoga) – A historic boutique hotel with an old-school glam vibe, full-service spa, and pool — ideal for travelers who want classic charm with modern comforts.
• Solage, Auberge Resorts Collection (Calistoga) – A stylish and wellness-focused resort with private bungalow-style studios, geothermal pools, and spa experiences, ideal for travelers craving luxury with a laid-back, rejuvenating vibe in charming Calistoga.
• Four Seasons Resort Napa Valley (Calistoga) – A refined and luxurious resort set within a working vineyard, offering spacious rooms, fine dining, and top-tier service, perfect for those seeking an upscale stay with easy access to wine tasting and scenic views.

Top 9 Places to Visit and Things to Do for Your 3 Day Napa Valley Itinerary

I’ll be honest…most of the top things to do and places to visit in Napa Valley revolve around wine. With over 500 wineries in the area, it’s kind of hard to avoid. BUUUUT, planning a 3 day Napa Valley itinerary doesn’t have to be all wine, all the time. While wine tasting is definitely the main event, I promise there are still some great non-alcoholic experiences worth checking out. I’ve put together a solid mix to help you build the perfect 3 day Napa Valley itinerary, whether you’re a wine lover or just tagging along for the vineyard views (and fooooood).

Keep scrolling for a list of my Top 9 favorite places to visit and things to do during your 3 day Napa Valley itinerary!

#1 Soar over Napa Valley in a colorful hot air balloon

Imagine kicking off your 3-day Napa Valley itinerary by soaring high above the valley in a rainbow hot air balloon! Hopping in a hot air balloon is one of the coolest and most beautiful ways to see the vineyards across Napa Valley. If you’re visiting during summer, it’s also a great way to see the sights before the heat rolls in. Hopefully you’re not afraid of heights though because this activity isn’t for the faint of heart.

#2 Sip your way through Napa’s best wineries

This one’s probably the most obvious stop on any 3-day Napa Valley itinerary…and for 99% of you…wine tasting is the whole reason you’re here. My winery recommendations could span 10-15 individual blog posts alone, but since I only have this tiny little section, I’m going to list out a few of my personal favorites. Some of these wineries I frequent again and again because of the wine (duh), but also because of the views, the service, and/or because I’m a member so I come up often for the free tastings. If you want a complete list of the best wineries though, I’d probably recommend checking out the main Napa Valley website. They have loads of great resources on there!

Just a reminder that this is nowhere near an exhaustive list but here are my top picks for the best wineries during your 3 day Napa Valley itinerary:

• Trefethen Family Vineyards (Oak Knoll District) — We’re members here and it’s one of the first wineries in the valley. We love that they make all their wines with grapes grown onsite which is rare these days.
• Stag’s Leap Wine Cellars (Stags Leap District) — A historic and prestigious winery with a century-old manor house, offering a sophisticated tasting experience rooted in Napa’s rich winemaking legacy.
• Ashes & Diamonds (Napa) — A visually stunning, mid-century modern estate that’s ideal for design lovers aka myself. I’m not craaazy about the wines here but different strokes for different folks!
• Duckhorn (St. Helena) —Also a member at this winery, Duckhorn is one of my absolute favs in the valley. If you want a big, bold, classic Napa Valley Cab…this is where to go.
• Del Dotto (St. Helena) — I feel like this is THE place to go if it’s your first time to Napa. Renowned for its atmospheric underground wine caves, this estate offers immersive tours that are a must for any serious wine enthusiast.
• Chandon (St. Helena) — Champagne? Yes please! Chandon is a beautiful, dog-friendly property offering an impressive selection of sparkling wines, from brut to rosé, along with a few surprises like craft spirits.
• Sterling Vineyards (Calistoga) — The only winery in the valley with a gondola to the top! Sterling has some of the best views on this list for sure. (The cover photo of this post is from Sterling Vineyards)
• Chateau Montelena (Calistoga) — Famous for its award-winning Chardonnay, this historic estate is equally known for its serene, lakeside setting that evokes the peaceful elegance of a Japanese zen garden. This winery is definitely next on my list for getting a membership!

Looking for dog-friendly wineries in Napa Valley? Check out my list of Top 12 pet-friendy wineries in Napa (personally approved by Bagel the beagle)

#3 Tee off at one of Napa’s top-rated public courses

Napa is the quintessential place where the husbands go golfing and the wives hit the spa and a bottle of Rombauer. Yep, and that’s exactly why I love this place so much. (So if you’re that type of couple, let me know so my fiance and I can join you asap). But seriously, Napa isn’t just for wine lovers, it’s also a low-key paradise for golfers, with a surprising number of public courses spread out among the vineyards and rolling hills. From the scenic fairways of Chardonnay Golf Club to the approachable layout at Napa Golf Course at Kennedy Park, there’s something for every skill level. Silverado Resort’s two championship courses even host PGA events, offering a pro-level experience open to the public.

#4 Rejuvenate with a mud bath, relaxing facial, or full body massage

Speaking of the spa…that is usually where you can find me if we’re staying for the weekend. Up north in Calistoga, the mud baths are a must-do experience during your 3 day Napa Valley itinerary. Especially if you haven’t experienced one yet! Indian Springs is the OG spot, but places like Calistoga Hot Springs, Golden Haven, and Dr. Wilkinson’s also offer fantastic mud bath treatments.

For a more traditional spa experience, you can always head to Stanly Ranch or Carneros Resort and Spa for a five-star luxury experience. But just know that it’ll cost you $$$$. Which is why Greenhaus Day Spa in downtown Napa is my best kept secret. And now it probably won’t be a secret anymore, but I love staying at The Archer Hotel and then booking a facial next door at Greenhaus Day Spa. I don’t end up paying $300+ for a facial and I feel like I basically get the same experience. If money isn’t an issue though, get your butt to Stanly Ranch asap. Halehouse is a literal DREAM.

#5 Hop aboard the Napa Valley Wine Train

You might’ve already heard about this one but if you haven’t…the Napa Valley Wine Train is part rolling restaurant and part time machine. It’s kinda like the wine country version of the Polar Express. Or the Hogwarts train!!! You’ll cruise through the heart of wine country in vintage railcars while sipping local wines and digging into multi-course meals. It’s touristy (and on the pricier side) but in the best way possible.

I’ll be honest, I haven’t gotten the chance to experience this yet but am planning to for my upcoming birthday in June! So I’ll definitely report back and update this section once I’ve gone. You can also follow me on Instagram for the hi-lights since I tend to post on there first before the blog.

#6 Taste your way through locally made olive oils

Tasting olive oils is a fun little detour to add to your 3-day Napa Valley itinerary. It’s like wine tasting, but with a richer, earthier twist. Local estates like Darioush Winery, Grove 45, and Round Pond Estate let you sample a variety of oils, from fruity to peppery, while learning about the pressing process. The last I checked, olive oil tastings in Napa will range from ~$45-$100/person.

There’s also The Olive Press shop inside Oxbow Public Market which is really convenient tif you’re staying downtown. (Oxbow Market itself is also a top attraction and it’s a great place to get breakfast before heading out for the day. I recommend the fresh salmon lox bagel from Loveski’s).

#7 Pedal through 12+ miles on the Napa Valley Vine Trail

Are you one of those families that love doing 10k’s on Thanksgiving? If so, this feels like the type of activity that you’d love. I personally don’t want to lift a finger when I’m in Napa, but I know some people love it. And if you’re one of those people, or you’re miraculously NOT hungover in the morning, you can rent a bike from Fat Tire and hit the Napa Valley Vine Trail!

Biking the Napa Valley Vine Trail is a perfect add-on to any 3-day Napa Valley itinerary if you’re looking to explore wine country at a slower, scenic pace. The trail stretches from Vallejo to Calistoga, winding through vineyards, charming towns, and plenty of spots for a scenic picnic. Whether you’re a casual rider or a cycling enthusiast, it’s a relaxing (and slightly indulgent) way to explore Napa’s beauty. And, yes, there are plenty of wineries along the way for pit stops!

#8 Reserve a pool day at one of the many hotels in Napa

No pool at your hotel? No problems! With Resortpass, you can easily reserve a pool day at one of Napa’s many stunning resorts. No seriously, I drive up from San Francisco probably once a month (sometimes more) during summer just to take advantage of the warm weather and pool access. I’ve used Resortpass countless times to reserve a pool chair and/or cabana with friends. The Meritage is easily the most convenient and usually the cheapest. If you can splurge, I recommend booking a Resortpass to Bardessano or Alila Napa Valley.

#9 Shop for local finds and antique goods in Downtown Napa

And last but not least…you shouldn’t leave Napa without checking out Downtown Napa! I know everyone wants to rush to the wineries right away but Downtown Napa is a hidden gem for antique shopping, clothing boutiques, dining, and more. A great place to start is the Napa Valley Welcome Center on 1st Street where you can grab some locally crafted souvenirs and snag a few of the winery maps. Just a short walk away, Makers Market is packed with handmade jewelry, leather goods, and home décor straight from local artisans. There’s also a cute antique store called “Antiques on Second”, along with a couple big brands like Anthropologie and Free People.

And, of course, don’t skip the tasting rooms along the way like JaM Cellars, Robert Craig, and Alpha Omega!

No matter what you decide to do, you cant go wrong with any of these Top 8 places to visit and things to do during your 3 day Napa Valley itinerary!

Where to Eat & Drink during your 3 Day Napa Valley Itinerary

One of the best (and trickiest) parts of planning a 3-day Napa Valley itinerary? The food. Seriously. The good and bad thing about Napa is that it’s packed with incredible restaurants. Like the best of the best. From cozy, family-owned shops to Michelin-starred dining, deciding on a place to eat in Napa is no easy task. I could create 5 blog posts alone on restaurants in Napa Valley but I know we don’t have unlimited time together. So I’ve rounded up the Top 3 places I end up at every time I’m in Napa, no questions asked.

Where to Eat & Drink in Napa Valley: Brasswood Bar + Kitchen

Okay the first time I stumbled upon Brasswood Bar + Kitchen was by total mistake. My girlfriend and I had just done a tasting at Whitehall and we were desperate for a place to eat that didn’t have a wait on our way back up to Calistoga. We randomly found Brasswood and got seated immediately and OH MY GOD. They have this “secret dish” on the menu called “the cheese” and it’s the most magical thing on earth. It’s basically freshly melted mozzarella on top of bread, with rosemary, olive oil, and fresh salt + pepper on top. I know it sounds simple af but it’s seriously divine. There’s a ton of indoor and outdoor seating, perfect for a long lunch or evening by the fire.

Where to Eat & Drink in Napa Valley: Brix

Brix never used to be on my bingo card but my fiance LOVES Brix so by proxy, I now do too. JK but seriously, I’ve recently come to love this place especially after getting our dog. They’re super dog-friendly and even offer a doggie menu of chicken or beef. For humans, Brix offers a farm-to-table menu with vineyard views and a gorgeous garden that you can walk around in. They also serve some of the best wines in the valley. Similar to Brasswood, there’s a ton of indoor + outdoor seating (and they’re dog-friendly in both areas).

Where to Eat & Drink in Napa Valley: Slanted Door

If you’re from the area, you might already know about the Slanted Door in San Francisco but did you know there’s also one in Napa? Well now you do! The Slanted Door Napa Valley is known for elevated Vietnamese food. We ordered everything from the spring rolls to papaya salad to daikon rice cakes, and more. Slanted Door is definitely one of our favorite restaurants in Downtown Napa!

Sample 3 Day Napa Valley Itinerary

Check out my sample 3 day Napa Valley Itinerary 🎈

Day 1 of your 3 Day Napa Valley Itinerary (Downtown Napa)

• Check into Archer Hotel Napa or The Setting Inn
• Morning coffee/pastries from Model Bakery
• Lunch at Angele Restaurant & Bar
• Afternoon art walk with a complimentary glass of wine
• Napa Valley Wine Train Vista Dome Dinner

Day 2 of your 3 Day Napa Valley Itinerary (Yountville/St. Helena)

• Morning breakfast bagel sandwiches from Winston’s
• Stop at Winery #1: Trefethen Family Vineyards
• Stop at Winery #2: Chandon
• Lunch at Brix
• Stop at Winery #3: Cakebread Cellars
• Dinner at Farmstead at Long Meadow Ranch

Day 3 of your 3 Day Napa Valley Itinerary (Calistoga)

• Morning Napa Valley hot air balloon ride
• Lunch at Solbar or Lovina
• Afternoon mud baths from Calistoga Spa Hot Springs
• Dinner at Sam’s Social Club
• Firepit drinks and smores at Calistoga Inn Restaurant & Brewery

3 Days in Napa Valley: Final Thoughts

I don’t know if I did a good job of covering all the amazing things you can do during a 3 day Napa Valley itinerary but I definitely tried my hardest. California wine country is such a special place for me and if if you’re still debating whether Napa is worth the long weekend getaway — I hope you take this as a sign to book the trip.

Three days in Napa Valley is just enough time to swirl, sip, and snack your way through some of California’s best wine country without needing a vacation from your vacation. It’s also the perfect amount of time since you might go broke if you tried to stay longer. But again, if money is no object…then cheers! You should stay for even longer (and adopt me into your family please).

Okay but seriously, I hope you found this San Francisco based wannabe wine girlie’s breakdown of Napa Valley helpful. Because whether you’re a wine nerd or just here for the views, Napa is one of those places you’ll want to return to again and again.

Did you get a chance to visit Napa Valley? Let me know in the comments below!

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